Paula 63 year old cheater in Chicago. Here she is. Meet Paula. Dated for a year and told me she wants to marry me. Or someone. Caught her holding hands and kissing another guy when she said she was out with friends for dinner and wanted to have a sleepover after. The night before we agreed to be exclusive. Pic below is her walking with the guy holding hands. Another night we were out to dinner with her sister, she opened her phone after she went to the bathroom and Bumble popped up. After taco fest on Southport she spent the night at my house and left the next morning and messaged my friend on Bumble. Caught her on JDate. Denied it. Asked me to marry her in December. Stayed at my place 12/23 and she was with another guy Christmas Eve.

Cancelled our NYE plans saying she wanted dinner with her sister and her husband because she got engaged NYE and didn’t want to have a date. She stayed at my house the next night and found out she was with another guy named Mitch NYE. If you’re out there, she gave us both the same sweatshirt, sent us both the same pictures of her with Santa around 12/18 and same texts about selling her business.

All this happening when she swore to me she wasn’t seeing anyone else or sleeping with anyone else. Classic liar/narcissist.

Asked me to visit her in Florida in January and kept saying Mitch wasn’t down there. He posted on FB he was. She then sent me text after he left wearing OSU sweatshirt saying it was getting attention and asked if I liked it.

Asked me to stay with her and sent me text’s saying she really loved me and needed time to sort things out. I broke up with her and she still is sending me emails and texts, while being in Aspen with the new guy. Leaving her dying 17 year old dog at home.

Asked me to have dinner night before leaving for Aspen and got upset when I said I couldn’t and accused me of being on a date. Got mad when I wouldn’t meet her after she got home and when I blocked her.

Now she’s on Bumble again while with him changing her profile pic three times.

Pics are her Bumble profile from last two weeks, when I caught her with another guy and when she left my house and messaged my buddy on Bumble. Proof in case needed.

Guys, I gave her too many chances thinking she could change and the good person would show up. It doesn’t happen, people are who they are. Can’t change them. No matter how much love and patience you give them.

Piece of work. Good luck whomever runs across her. Run, run away far, run away fast. And if you have a friend named Mitch warn him!

Mike: Paula is enjoying her retirement