Shelly Mimi Knight Mills — Nashville, Tennessee. My husband works for the Metro Transit Authority which is a public transportation system in Nashville. He was working on the downtown location the place all of the bus drivers come into the bus station to choose up passengers. He began speaking and serving to out the drivers with any mechanical issues. This one bus driver Shelly was simply so pleasant and my husband being the kind of individual that may speak to folks and he listens to folks and their issues he after all made pals together with her. De I discover out by way of him that they might textual content forwards and backwards similar to he would do with the opposite drivers so I learn his textual content from her that he had on his cellphone and for essentially the most half it was all nothing aside from a textual content that she had despatched wanting us to return to her granddaughters birthday celebration again in January of this yr 2013. On this textual content she states she hopes we are able to make it and she is going to strive to not flirt with him an excessive amount of. Properly after I learn this I knew what she was as much as as a result of she had been telling him all about her marital issues together with her husband and the way they don’t get alongside. So when he acquired up that morning after I had went to work I informed him I wished to learn the textual content she had been sending him and for him to not delete them. So when he and I acquired dwelling from work that night time I acquired his cellphone and was studying them effectively the one she had despatched in regards to the birthday celebration and never flirting with him was deleted. I ask him why did he delete the one about flirting he mentioned I don’t know. I mentioned yeah you didn’t need me to see it that’s after I made him inform her that she couldn’t textual content him anymore and he wouldn’t be texting her anymore. Properly issues have been going fairly effectively between us for a couple of months after which hastily he appeared to alter. It was like every part I mentioned he would get mad or irritated at me and it was simply little issues. All of it got here to a head in July after we acquired again from trip. Her husband over heard her speaking to her grown daughter (who additionally helped with them in contacting one another) speaking about my husband so he threatened to name me and inform me what was occurring. After all Shelly informed my husband it was fixing to be an enormous mess that her husband Rob was going to name me and inform me every part so my husband on July seventeenth informed me every part himself. He informed me every part that they had executed, the place they met, about her getting him a paid cellphone to make use of and had him make up a pretend Fb account so when he was dwelling or with me he might preserve involved together with her through Fb. I do blame him for a part of this as a result of he might have gotten out of this at any time however he mentioned she was the one who made the primary transfer by telling him once more about an issue she and her husband was supposedly having and that’s once they first kissed. There are a whole lot of different issues I’ve neglected as a result of it could be like writing a e-book. However the factor is I informed him that this girl was hassle the very first time he informed me about her which is when he began working within the downtown location and was speaking to her as a good friend. We’re going to marriage counseling to work by way of this as a result of I’ve already had one failed marriage and I don’t wish to have one other failed one. We each wish to make this work and he mentioned he would do no matter it takes to make issues proper. I need so dangerous to make use of a few of the stuff in opposition to her that she informed to my husband in secret like her daughters daddy isn’t her actual daddy and the job she has a bus driver she lied on her utility she doesn’t have a highschool schooling and from my understanding that’s grounds for getting fired there. However I’m afraid if I do something to get vengeance on her that it might again fireplace on me and one thing dangerous might occur to me or my household. I really want a whole lot of prayers over this. I do know I nonetheless have rather a lot to work by way of and it’ll take time however I do know I can get by way of this and save my marriage and it’s stronger than it ever was.